I recently went to the bookstore and – on a whim – bought Shonda Rhimes’ book, Year of Yes: How to Dance It Out, Stand in the Sun and Be Your Own Person.
I hope to start reading it soon, but — according to the description on the inside flap — it’s Shonda’s account of what happens when she (an introvert) takes something her sister says to heart and spends a year saying “yes” to things she would normally say “no” to.
It’s getting me thinking.
Perhaps I should use this year to try different things, things I would normally say “no” to.
Compared to Shonda Rhimes, I’d probably describe myself as more of an extrovert. I do say “yes” to some things. And no, I certainly don’t think I need to read a book by a top Hollywood TV producer to just learn to say “yes” to things. It’s not a new concept; people the world over have — at some point — tried this exercise, with varied (and sometimes surprising) results.
Regarding the book, I’m a fan of Rhimes’ work, so I’m genuinely curious to see how things worked out for her.
But personally, as (relatively) good as my life is, I admit it’s getting a wee bit staid. Every once in a while, I need to shake things up, give myself a jolt, keep it interesting.
What kinds of things? Hmm. Good question. Perhaps it’s as simple as doing something that I haven’t done in a while.
For example: On Monday evening, I signed myself up for a 30-day pass to a yoga studio. I’ve done yoga before, but usually, it’s a one-time event. I want to see if I can do it on a regular basis, to help with some minor back issues I’ve had (which isn’t helped by long periods of sitting at work). If I stick with it, all the better. If it doesn’t, at least I’ve tried.
Oh, here’s another: My friend Renée found a set of writing challenges people can try to improve their writing, or get into the exercise of writing regularly.
She asked if I wanted to try blogging once every day this year.
You’ve all seen what my writing habits are like. But I’ve said yes. Truthfully I don’t know if I can do it, but I’ll give it a try (and I hope you’ll come and visit me here if I do do this).
But there are other things that I should open myself up to trying.
Maybe I’ll try another con like I did that one time in 2012 (scroll down that post to skim).
Perhaps it’s volunteering.
Or semi-spontaneously travelling somewhere for a weekend. (I’m not a spontaneous traveller.)
Or maybe it’s finding myself in the middle of salsa dancing …
These are purely examples, not real things I’m aiming to do. But who really knows?
At least once this year, I have to push myself just a little bit outside my comfort zone, say yes, and travel down a rabbit hole that isn’t virtual and doesn’t lead me to YouTube.
Whether the result is glorious or disastrous, it would be a life experience. (And those things also make for great stories, no?)
What about you?
Is there anything you’re trying or wanted to try, but never got around to it? Let me know in the comments!